Let’s be real: Success doesn’t always feel like success.

On paper, you’re crushing it—degrees, promotions, showing up like the dependable one everyone counts on. But inside? You’re barely holding it together. And even when you check all the boxes, it still doesn’t feel like enough.

You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re just exhausted from trying to lead while disconnected from yourself. This isn’t just burnout. It’s deeper than that, and I see it all the time.

If you’re a fan of Love is Blind, you know the premise: singles search for true love without ever laying eyes on each other. By getting to know someone deeply, they form connections built solely on conversation, chemistry, and emotional compatibility. But with attachment styles shaping so much of how we relate to others, it raises a fascinating question: Could attachment styles be influencing how these couples bond in the pods?