Childhood Trauma & Sexual Abuse Therapy | Sandy Springs, GA

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Something happened that changed how safe the world felt.

You may not have a word for it yet. You may have had one for years. Either way, you're in the right place.

Childhood experiences that involve sexual boundary violations — whether they were named at the time or not — leave marks that don't stay contained to the past. They show up in how you trust, how you receive intimacy, how you relate to your own body, and how you move through relationships that should feel safe but somehow don't.

This page is for adults who are ready to work with those marks directly.


It doesn't always look like what you think trauma looks like.

Some people arrive here knowing exactly what happened. Others arrive with a feeling — a persistent disconnection, a body that flinches at the wrong moments, a pattern in relationships that doesn't make sense given everything they know about themselves — and no clear story attached to it yet.

Both are valid starting points.

Childhood sexual abuse doesn't always come from a stranger. It often comes from someone trusted, someone loved, someone the family depended on. That proximity makes it harder to name. Not because it wasn't real, but because naming it requires holding two things at once: the person you knew and what they did.

You may be carrying this if:

  • Intimacy feels unsafe, even with people you trust

  • Your body holds tension, numbness, or hypervigilance in ways you can't fully explain

  • You've worked in therapy before but something still feels unreachable

  • You minimize what happened because it "wasn't that bad" or you weren't sure it counted

  • You feel shame about something you didn't choose and couldn't have prevented

  • You've never told anyone, and the silence has its own weight

  • Someone in your family knew, or should have known, and didn't protect you

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WHY THIS IS ATTACHMENT WORK

Childhood sexual abuse is an attachment wound.

When the person who violated boundaries was also someone you depended on — a parent, a sibling, a family friend, a religious leader — the wound isn't only about what happened. It's about what it did to your ability to trust closeness itself.

The nervous system learns from experience. When closeness became associated with danger, unpredictability, or shame, that learning doesn't disappear when the circumstances change. It shows up decades later in how you let people in, how you respond to vulnerability, and how you relate to your own body and worth.

Attachment-based therapy for childhood sexual trauma doesn't just process the event. It works with what the event taught your nervous system about being human — and begins to offer it something different.

WHO THIS IS FOR

This work holds more than one kind of experience.

If it happened and was never reported: Many people carry what happened in complete silence — sometimes for decades. You may have had reasons for not telling: fear of not being believed, protecting someone you also loved, not having language for it at the time, or a family or cultural context where disclosure wasn't safe. The silence doesn't mean it didn't happen. And it doesn't mean you have to keep carrying it alone.


If the person was close to you: When abuse happens within a family system, healing is complicated by the fact that the perpetrator may still be present — at holidays, in family conversations, in photographs. You may love someone you also needed protection from. This work holds that complexity without requiring you to resolve it before you begin.


If you weren't sure it counted: Grooming, boundary violations that felt confusing, experiences that were normalized by the people around you — these are real. Not being certain about what happened, or having been told it wasn't a big deal, doesn't disqualify your experience from deserving care.


If you were a child who also hurt someone: Some adults carry a particular kind of shame — not only from what was done to them, but from sexual behavior they engaged in as children or adolescents with peers or younger family members. Often this behavior was itself a response to their own exposure, abuse, or dysregulation. If you have spent years carrying this alone, unsure whether you deserve help — this is still a safe place for you. The shame you carry is real. So is the grace available to you.

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THE MODALITY

Some of this work can't be talked through. It has to be moved through.

Childhood sexual trauma often lives in the body rather than the narrative. The memory may be fragmented, minimized, or absent entirely — while the body continues to respond as if the threat is still present.

Brainspotting is particularly well-suited to this work because it doesn't require you to narrate what happened. It accesses healing through the brain-body connection — working with where the nervous system is holding activation rather than asking you to reconstruct a story you may not have full access to.

For many clients healing from childhood sexual trauma, Brainspotting creates a kind of processing that talk therapy alone couldn't reach.

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FOR THOSE CARRYING SPIRITUAL WOUNDS ALONGSIDE THIS

When the abuse happened in a faith context — or faith became complicated because of it.

For some, childhood sexual abuse happened within a religious community, at the hands of a spiritual authority, or in a home where faith was used to enforce silence. For others, the theological questions that follow abuse — about God's protection, about forgiveness, about worth — are some of the heaviest parts of the healing.

This work holds the spiritual dimension of trauma without prescribing where you should land on any of it. Your questions about God, faith, and what you deserved belong in the room alongside everything else.

You've carried this long enough.

You don't have to have it sorted, named, or fully understood before you reach out. You just need a place where it's safe to begin.

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Before you reach out

  • No. Fragmented, incomplete, or uncertain memories are common with childhood sexual trauma. This work doesn't require a complete narrative. It focuses on what your nervous system is currently holding and how that's showing up in your life now.

  • Many clients come to this work having never disclosed what happened to anyone. Therapy can be the first place you name it. You set the pace entirely.

  • This work doesn't require you to cut contact, confront anyone, or make any decisions about your relationships before you begin. We focus on your internal experience first.

  • If something happened that left you carrying shame, confusion, or disconnection — it belongs in the room. You don't need a clinical definition to deserve support.

  • Both. This is attachment-based therapy that incorporates somatic and Brainspotting approaches specifically because childhood sexual trauma often requires more than talk alone.

  • Yes, fully. All identities, relationship configurations, and family structures are welcome here without condition.